Yeah, you… let’s chat for a sec.

Hey you!

 

… where, “well we really should” goes to die.

In a rush & wanna skip the pep talk? Jump to pricing instead.

Welcome to Tangled Trails Media..

#1: Your wedding or elopement is about YOU and only you.

It’s actually not about your parents, or your friends, or your aunt Sharon who insists she should be there even though you haven’t seen her in 10 years. Your wedding isn’t just a glorified family reunion, and you shouldn’t feel bad about wanting to keep it small.

#2: There’s no “right way” to have a wedding, and you get to do literally whatever TF you want.

Like, anything. If that means sticking with a tradition that’s really important to you, I’ll be right there supporting you in that choice. Rather go zip lining or biking down the beach before jumping in the sea in your wedding clothes? Cool, I’m there. There are no rules, and you’re perfectly allowed to pick and choose what elements of tradition and non-tradition feel good to you. With you in mind, I made all of my packages super customizable so you can pick and choose exactly what works for you.

#3: You actually don’t have to get married in your hometown “so everyone can make it.”

You are not obligated to blow your entire budget on feeding and accommodating 200+ people if what you really want is an epic experience with your forever person. If having a destination wedding or elopement feels right to you, that’s what you should prioritize. It’s not “selfish” if someone you love can’t make it, and you can always throw a reception back home at a later time.

#4: Your wedding shouldn’t be the best day of your life just because you’re getting married.

I know, I know. That’s rich coming from a wedding and elopement photographer. The idea that your wedding should be the best day of your life is what keeps me and other luxury wedding vendors in business. But I’m over the idea that getting married is the end goal. People perceived as “brides” especially are constantly fed this messaging that weddings have to be big, traditional, and involve everyone you know - and it’s implied that life is kinda downhill from there.

What if I told you that YOU get to take charge of the narrative? You can make your wedding one of the best days of your life by ditching traditions that don’t feel meaningful and doing what you actually want. Weddings aren’t the end goal, but the start of your next adventure with your love. You get to kick it off in whatever way feels good - pretty cool, huh?

So go ahead, make it a big deal… because it is a big f*cking deal! 

Just remember that “the best day of your life” only happens if you’re doing something you actually love, and that it will be one of many more best days together.

Wedding & elopement packages designed with you in mind

  • A couple walks along a rocky bluff while eloping on the North Shore of Minnesota. They are wearing non-traditional wedding attire, and the bride is holding a crocheted bouquet. The rocks are brown, and the water and sky are both blue.

    "little squam:" like a book of poetry

    Half day (up to 6 hours) of digital and 35mm film photo coverage by yours truly.

    Comprehensive planning assistance, and a built-in backup plan in case of unforeseen weather.

    Elopement officiant services where applicable.

    A complimentary engagement session, second photographer, or fine art album.

    $4200.00, including all taxes and travel fees anywhere in the United States

  • "the rockies:" like a well-loved novella

    Up to 8 hours of digital and 35mm film photo coverage by yours truly.

    Comprehensive planning assistance, and a built-in backup plan in case of unforeseen weather.

    Elopement officiant services where applicable.

    A complimentary engagement session, second photographer, or fine art album.

    $5400.00, including all taxes and travel fees anywhere in the United States

  • "the voyageurs:" the full storytelling experience

    Full day (up to 10 hours) of digital and 35mm film photo coverage by yours truly.

    Comprehensive planning assistance, and a built-in backup plan in case of unforeseen weather.

    Elopement officiant services where applicable.

    A complimentary engagement session, second photographer, or fine art album.

    $6000.00, with complimentary travel fees anywhere in the United States

Pssst. All the packages above are named after parks, mountain ranges, or lakes in places I’ve lived. Do you recognize them all?

the whole shebang

the whole shebang

Ready to go all out?!

the sky’s the limit, so let’s dream big.

If your wedding plans are a little too non-traditional for just one day of coverage, my “all-in” weekend experience may be for you. This package includes up to 14 hours of film and digital wedding or elopement coverage (split into 1-2 days), a 2-3 minute video on super 8 film, a second photographer for up to 10 hours, and either a 2-hour engagement session or a hand-designed fine art album.

This package is priced at $9,800 and includes travel anywhere in the world.

 

a destination wedding and elopement photographer for trail-blazers in love

As a New England and Midwest LGBTQ photographer, I have roots in both Minnesota and New Hampshire… but I’m always on the go! I love to experience new places, so my travel wedding photography packages already have all the details worked out. Skip the hidden fees and the headache of booking my travel - You tell me where to be and when, and I’ll pack my bags.

upcoming travel!

upcoming travel!

Where in the world will Abi be this year?

Winter 2025: Minnesota, New Hampshire, Maine, Vermont, Costa Rica

Spring 2025: Minnesota, Maryland

Summer 2025: Minnesota, New Hampshire

Fall 2025: Minnesota, Wyoming

Abi’s favorite places: New Hampshire/Vermont, Ireland, the Pacific Northwest, Arizona, Nevada, Glacier National Park

Wanna add one to the list? I’m not currently charging travel fees for full-coverage wedding packages booked anywhere in the United States.

Are you ready to abandon the “shoulds” and any traditions that don’t speak to you…

…and instead embrace a wedding experience that celebrates you for who you are individually and as a couple?

(even if you’re still figuring out how to break the news to loved ones who didn’t get an invite…)

You might want to book another photographer if…

You’re looking for a traditional photographer to direct you into all the classic “cake topper” poses.

Your wedding will be indoors, traditional, and have a large guest list.

You want to remember your day through posed photo ops instead of candid moments.

…but we might be a dream team if….

You are intentional, thoughtful, and inclusive.

You’re planning to elope and want a photographer who’s on the entire adventure with you, and can talk you through packing lists, travel tips, and ground rules for respecting the outdoor space we explore together.

Your wedding is on the smaller side, outdoors, or otherwise unconventional.

You usually feel awkward in photos and want to work with someone who will guide you using prompts rather than direct you into stiff (and often gendered) poses.

You want your photos to truly capture how it felt to be there.

For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health…

Ahem. Erm, yeah, I think you get the point.

I vow

to always…

…use non-gendered, un-stuffy prompts instead of rigid poses so you feel like YOU on your wedding day

…truly get to know you as a couple so I come prepared to capture your authentic relationship dynamic in a documentary style

…be your biggest advocate for you to do exactly what you want and not take sh*t from anybody

soooo... what's next?!

STEP 1. You fill out my inquiry form with as much detail as you can.

STEP 2. We connect in-person or on a video call to make sure we’re a great fit.

STEP 3. We make it OFFICIAL, and I become your tour guide on this crazy wedding adventure.

Once you’re all in, you’ll gain access to a unique portal with all your contract and invoicing information, a comprehensive welcome guide, a detailed questionnaire about your day, and a scheduler link for video calls to support you leading up to your day.

Inquire about your wedding or elopement

We were from out of state and Abi worked with us to make our dream micro wedding come through. She made my four year old niece feel beautiful, captured our love and our crazy beautiful blended family.

We laughed, ate, cried, and left friends.

Gabrielle & Cierra

all the nitty gritty deets for the anxious souls like me

Pssst.

Whenever I hire anyone to do anything for me, I ask a million questions. I always get a bit self-conscious about it and wonder if I’m being annoying. Consider this your formal invitation to send me whatever questions pop into your brain - I promise you you’re not being annoying for turning over every rock, and I am more than happy to chat with you as much as you need to be 110% confident in your decision to hire me!

Questions before getting started?